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4 july.

July 5, 2016 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos Leave a Comment

I never know how to celebrate holidays here, but we do want to try! For this year’s 4th of July we enjoyed a nice swim in the rain, and then we went to the nice grocery store in town and bought the foods we miss most from the States!

For Stephen, that was a burger with a fresh homemade bun. And some French fries & grilled veggies on the side.

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For me, it’s salad.

IMG_0363 (1)We splurged for delicious lettuce, rocket, zucchini, and–the best!–blueberries & pecans. We found some goat milk in town and attempted goat cheese–a form of ricotta made from goats milk; it was pretty close! I looked forward to this salad for days and it was ahhhhhmazing! It completely lived up to my own hype.

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So happy 4th of July. We’re so thankful to have been born free, with papers and in blessed families; even if that is just so we could move to another country!

the community we love.

June 30, 2016 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: housewares, kelli, photos, playhouse 1 Comment

In the midst of life going by, we–mostly Stephen–capture some amazing photos of this community we love so much, especially the littlest members!
IMG_0871This little friend was in the hospital for nearly two weeks with severe malnourishment. While we waited on couple other friends to see the doctor one day, we spent a couple hours with his mom and others in the malnourishment area. His mom told us how he always goes right to the white doctor when she comes to see him!
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IMG_0783This is what dinnertime looks like in the community. There is usually one adult or older child in charge of feeding all the littles, so they go in turns taking a bite. Sometimes while sitting on tires or playing in the street.

IMG_4267Two girls showing off their new pillowcases dresses donated from a local org!

IMG_0004The more the women take on bread baking on their own, the more I am in charge of the three littles. It’s a good gig.

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supply & demand.

June 30, 2016 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli Leave a Comment

This is something I feel like God continues to lay on my heart and mind; he continues to encircle us with it. I want to attempt to put some of it into words, but per usual: I lack conclusions. I always do. Instead of establishing a side, I want to start conversations that I feel need to be started.

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Human trafficking has become a buzz word, and one we often feel is misused and overused. For this conversation, I’d rather consider the sex industry on the whole–by choice, by force, by necessity, by culture, by situation. On the whole, there is a sex industry that has permeated the world.

For us, it looks like brothels open at night in our town. It looks like girls and women being “trafficked” or transported through our border town; an estimate of 10,000 per year, as I last read. Who really knows? Who is counting?

For us, sometimes it looks like conversations with parents about not sending their teenage girls to jobs in Bangkok, attempting to tell them of our concern for “bad men who want to buy girls” and offering other options–any options we can think of. Sometimes it means we pay for a girls’ schooling in a desperate attempt to keep her there; sometimes it means we offer jobs to thirteen and fourteen year olds in last-ditch efforts to help them earn money for the family while keeping them in the family.

For us, it sometimes looks like the red-light district in Chiang Mai, where I hear there more brothels per capita than any place in the world. It also looks like the streets of Bangkok, some of them lined with girls. I used a supermarket bathroom on our last trip that felt more like a dressing room for the local prostitutes than a restroom.

I think the Church is growing in awareness: of trafficking, of prostitution, of the sex industry worldwide. We like the word “trafficking,” but I think we are learning more about the industry on the whole. We are learning that it is sometimes forced by a stranger, sometimes by a parent; sometimes by a situation. We are learning it is sometimes a choice; and we are learning that sometimes the line between a choice and an imperative is very, very thin.

But over many conversations, Stephen and I are coming to this: perhaps we, as the Church, are looking too much to the supply. We are focused on the girls: how do we get them out? How do we prevent trafficking? How did they get here? How do we get them out?

Perhaps we need to turn the other direction. If there is a supply, there is a demand. There is a reason the girls are standing on the street: it’s because there is a market at hand. If it wasn’t successful, they would go inside. If there weren’t opportunities, girls wouldn’t be commodities. There has to be a buyer. There has to be a demand.

And with this demand so present, no matter how many girls we rescue–by education, prevention, or what not–more will take their place. Because in removing the supply, the demand remains.

So if the supply is this epic–10,000 coming through my border town that you’ve never heard of? Countless streets lined with women, day after day after day?–so is the demand.  And if the demand is this epic, it isn’t strangers to us.

If the supply is in my little border town, so is the demand. If the supply is on the street with me, so is the demand. If the supply is on the subway with me, so is the demand.

Perhaps we need to look there instead. How can we, as the Church, address this demand?

To be honest, I’m not sure how we do that. I just think we might be looking toward the wrong side of the economic equation.

I think it’s easier for us to think about the supply: it is easier to send money for the victim–to help them go to school, to help them get jobs, to give them a future. But I think we need to take the harder road. It is not just the supply that needs rescuing. It is not just the supply that has been given a hope and a future.

We need to address the issues in our marriages, the issues on our computers, the issues in our own country that legalize sexuality in many twisted forms. We need to talk about the demand; we need to identify it. We need to make it less of a secret. We need to meet them, to put faces on them; we need to learn how to love them and welcome them into our churches.

Personally, I’m not sure how to turn around to see the demand. Right now, it looks like me looking around, in this coffee shop or on that public transit route, and telling myself that the demand is here. And then I pray for them. I pray for their hope and future.  And I pray for the church to start talking about all the things we aren’t talking about (and perhaps talk a little less about some of the things they are talking about, but that might just be me).

I guess I’ll leave it at that, in its beautiful conclusion-less form, and ask that we all take a minute to pray for the sex industry from all sides, particularly that of the demand that makes it go ’round.

winning in bangkok.

June 29, 2016 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos Leave a Comment

Amidst the race & some amazing food and coffee in Bangkok, we found a few other adventures. We visited Wat Pho, one of the larger temples in Bangkok housing 99 pagodas.

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IMG_0160It is also home to the Reclining Buddha, which is just indescribably huge.

That evening, we went on a night bicycle tour of the city. As a group of four, we were given a private tour, which was such fun. We loved our guide, and he was so kind to answer so many questions and share all sorts of interesting facts. He ended up spending over four hours showing us around a few temples, the flower market, and other landmarks. If you are ever in Asia, look up Grasshopper Adventures; and if you’re in Bangkok, ask for Tom!

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We also played a number of games of Ticket to Ride on the iPad. This was my favorite 🙂

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And despite Keri’s poor score on this one, the Blunier girls won every game!

We really had so much fun and we are so thankful for the many people who made it possible–particularly the grandparents who watched four kiddos for sixteen days!

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the winning we didn’t really win.

June 29, 2016 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos Leave a Comment

After a few days back in Mae Sot, we said goodbyes to the neighborhood and made our way to Bangkok for the last couple days before Steven & Keri flew out.

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Since I have always loved running with Keri, and Steven just always loves running, I set out to find a race for us to participate in.

I found the We Run for the Blind 2 race and signed us up–Steven for a 10k and Keri & I for the 5k. We were given instructions to be at the check-in table at 5:30am.

All Three Before RaceWe were. Unfortunately, that was unnecessary, and the race didn’t start until nearly 7:30am. They also had only two of us signed up–Steven for the 10k and “Kelli Helmick” for the 10k. I explained that Keri & I were running the 5k, and they made us new bibs. I tried to explain that one name was actually “no Ls, just R”…we got this.IMG_4907 IMG_4915
As we waited for the start, we took this picture. They kept asking us, Are you buddies? We didn’t really understand. We knew some people were partnered with blind people who were running the race, but not speaking the language, we didn’t sign up for this.

Later, Steven went back to the desk to ask about his other bib–there had been two, one in Thai and one in English. He asked if he could keep the Thai one, since it was his name in Thai. To this, the woman asked, “Do you understand this race?”

Uh, no. Clearly not. That wasn’t his name in Thai–that was his “buddy.” Everyone was partnered with another person who was about your pace, some blind and some not. If neither of you were blind, you took turns running blind and leading each other, so that we all learned how to guide as a runner.

This is very complicated with language barriers, and overall, we were very confused. But we did run!

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Keri & I decided to be partners since we speak the same language. We held onto the same guide band and for the last kilometer or so I was blind folded and required her guidance… It was a very odd experience, but an experience nonetheless! Steven’s buddy never arrived, so he ran by himself and made pretty good time.

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While we didn’t really win, it did give them a good idea of how I feel in most races in Thailand 🙂 I rarely know what’s really going on: just keep running, just keep running!

winning with elephants.

June 29, 2016 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos 1 Comment

Steven was so excited for our day with the elephants. While fear of these beasts was more pressing on my mind, it is bucket-list material, and we went for it!

IMG_0092First, they give you these great one-size-fits-not-all denim outfits. I’m sure it’s best for the elephants or something, but that was a lot of denim to cart around.

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We then were each given our own elephant, which we spent the next few hours with. They taught us a few phrases in Thai to direct the elephant, and thankfully kept a mahout nearby for when we forgot.

To climb on the elephant, you tell them you’re going to get on, and they lift up a leg for you to step onto. You pull yourself up using their ear, which they assured us doesn’t hurt the elephant. It’s a pretty cool system, but unbelievably difficult. These are some big beasts to be climbing onto!

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Stephen’s elephant, JoJo, was absolutely huge. He was also very fast, and the one who knew how to spray others with water using his trunk. They got all of us.

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To get off the elephant, you could tell him to lift one leg as a step, the same way you mounted. The other option was to have him bow his head and slide off his trunk! Such fun, but a surprisingly far jump.
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After practicing getting on and off the elephants multiple times, we took them for a walk through the park and then down to bathe in the river.Elephant Bath IMG_4662 IMG_4641All Four On Elephants
We walked them back for the elephant show and helped in the show as they showed off their skills of playing the drums, lumbering, painting, playing catch, and bowing. In all we each spent about three hours with our elephant, and it was amazing to experience such an incredible animal up close.

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We then toured the rest of the park, including the elephant hospital, elephant nursery (adorable!), and the paper factory. There are about 70 elephants at this one conservation center, and they recycle all the elephant dung to make natural dung paper.

Last, we took a ride through the jungle on an elephant with a seat. After riding the elephants bare-backed and learning to direct them ourselves, this wasn’t as epic, but still another incredible experience!

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winning in chiang mai.

June 29, 2016 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos Leave a Comment

After a few days in Mae Sot, we took a quick jaunt up to Chiang Mai. There were just a few things to be explored that Mae Sot didn’t have to offer.

IMG_0071We arrived just in time to catch the last two quarters of the final NBA game at a local pub. While I can’t remember now who we were cheering for, “our team” won, and Steven was pretty stoked he caught the game!

Next, we visited the Grand Canyon. It’s really just an old quarry now turned into a swimming hole with cliff jumping. And this particular day, we arrived for them to tell us there wasn’t any cliff jumping today because someone had hurt their back this morning. When we asked if they were okay, they just said they were at the hospital, but “no problem, we make safe for you.”

And cliff jumping was back in business within thirty minutes or so.

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IMG_5689With the back incident and personalities to consider, Stephen & Keri much preferred the tubing while Steven and I took some jumps.IMG_5704Before Zoo Show
We visited the zoo the next day (with a few hundred Thai school kids), which is one of my favorite places in Chiang Mai. One of the best parts is that you are able to purchase food to feed animals, for about 30 cents per exhibit.

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Here Steven & Stephen are feeding emus bananas at the end of a stick. Emus are scarier than you might think, and that stick might have been a bit shorter than we’d have liked!

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IMG_4467Check out this hippo mouth!? I love that in offering food to them, they come right to you. I can’t say I’ve otherwise seen the inside of a hippo’s mouth.IMG_4398
Feeding baby pigs milk from a bottle is one of the cutest things.

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Here we took turns putting raw meat on the end of a stick and feeding it to a panther.  Again, amazing to see the animals so engaged and interested in our being there!

In all, we fed hippos, sheep, goats, elephants, panthers, piglets, emus, & giraffes. Pretty amazing!

The following day we headed back to Mae Sot, but stopped at an Elephant Conservation Center on the way. I think we’d all say it was the best day, so that deserves a post of it’s own!

all we did is win, win, win.

June 29, 2016 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos Leave a Comment

I’m sorry for the silence. Instead of writing and posting to a blog, we had family in town and we were soaking it up. We enjoyed conversations, games, food, and adventures: all we did is win, win, win.

And now we share the fun of having my sister & brother-in-law come to visit for a couple weeks!
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We scheduled a few appointments in Bangkok the days before Steven & Keri arrived so we could be there to pick them up at the airport. One of their flights was delayed, which led to missing the next one, which led to delayed luggage…you know the drill. Except, their re-routed schedule had them arriving four hours early to Bangkok! We enjoyed a morning over coffee before catching our flight to Mae Sot. Thailand also came through with gusto and connected their luggage on a flight to Mae Sot the next day! I can’t really express how much of a surprise this was: win, win, WIN.
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It was so fun to show them around Mae Sot after it has become so much a part of us.

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We took them to our favorite places, which for me, is the market.

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And we introduced them to our favorite people! It was fun to see Steven in his element of teaching. We also played games with the kids and they were able to help with childcare during bread baking.

IMG_0040 IMG_0234It was so fun to have them in the community and loving on our best friends.

I wish I could truly explain how many times we had the realization of there being two Kewees (Kelli & Keri) and two Stewens (Steven & Stephen). This happened in every conversation, in every city, and every culture. Amazing, and absolutely hilarious, particularly when the converser is somewhat inhibited by alcohol. Yes, there are two of us with relatively the same name, and there will be the same number in the morning!

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Global Alms returned to our community to bless additional girls with beautiful dresses!IMG_4013IMG_0094

IMG_0247We spent one day exploring waterfalls!

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We went to countless of our favorite restaurants and loved sharing the experiences of Mae Sot with the Helmicks!

eye clinic.

June 12, 2016 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: house calls, house church, kelli, photos Leave a Comment

Remember how we called in the professionals?

The pastors & leaders at our church scheduled an eye clinic for June 7, and it was an amazing success!  They came early in the morning to set up shop in our yard, and we pulled out water & coffee to welcome people in.IMG_3866
Throughout the day they were able to examine fifty-three people, both Burmese & Thai within a kilometer or so of our house.

IMG_3786IMG_3820IMG_3835They were mostly older, as people don’t come to simply be checked; they came if they thought they couldn’t see. And they were right–of those 53 people, fifty needed glasses.  The church provided free glasses all around!

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It was pretty cute to see them all sitting in their new glasses, most trying to read!

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In other amazing news, Aung Moe’s vision continues to improve! While it may be happening slower than we’d hoped, that prayer is being answered! When we first took him to the clinic about three years ago, his vision was 20/1000. Over the years, it improved to 20/200 at Christmas of last year. This week? It was at 20/50 without glasses and 20/30 with glasses! He still lacks nearly all peripheral and can only see directly in front of him, but it is improving all that same. It was incredible to see the entire community gathered around, asking him how many fingers they were holding up and who they were; then cheering when he got it right!

Our pastor, Ah Tee, is also who came to pray for Aung Moe when he was unconscious in the hospital three years ago. It was the day the doctors told us all that he would die; some of the men in the community were there and remember  Ah Tee praying for Aung Moe’s healing. Ah Tee now comes to visit Aung Moe nearly weekly, talking with him and getting to know him, and now was the one to check his eyes and give him glasses. It is always amazing to see how God brings things full circle, and we are praying big things for every aspect of this.

We are hoping to schedule a second clinic for the kids in the future, mostly to ensure everyone can see in school. Until then, we just continue to give thanks for this lovely church loving on our community with us!

first day of school!

June 12, 2016 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos, playhouse Leave a Comment

Sometimes I overestimate the capacity we have, and it leads to a few busy, chaotic days as Stephen graciously helps us pull it off and make ends meet.

Other times, I truly and completely overestimate our capacity, and it leads to a few weeks of exhaustion and a night or two of not going to bed until 2 or 3 in the morning. Because Stephen is one of the most patient people I know, he is still gracious and helps pull it all together. This includes going to sleep on the futon at 2:30am because I’m still packing and have clothes strewn across our bed. That was this past two weeks for us.

But amidst the over-zealous to-do list, there were some great notables. The first being the kids’ first day of school!

(Are you hearing “First day of school! First day of school!” in Nemo’s voice? Me, too.)

The kids are divided between three schools around us, mostly depending on the parent’s value of education and willingness to pay between $3 and $20 per term.

IMG_3763It’s so fun to have school start back. Since our house is the house to be in the neighborhood, we are a bit relieved when the school bus starts pulling around. Kids can get pretty destructive and crazy in the hours of summer, and this summer’s heat wave didn’t help the insanity.

(On the note of the heat wave, I know we keep mentioning this. The rain has now started, and we officially survived. But I want to note that there usually about five consecutive days over 105 degrees Fahrenheit. This year, there were fifty. FIFTY CONSECUTIVE DAYS of what I can only fathom to be hell-like heat. We were not being overly dramatic. It was horrible. Take a minute and say a prayer of thanks that we survived and that you don’t live here.)

IMG_3759Now, the rains have started, and the kids pile off to school with their lunch pails and umbrellas. For those at Hsa Thoo Lei migrant & the Hua Fai Thai school, they walk to class and often just stop in to tell us hello in the morning as they pass the house, which is adorable.

For those going to Ko Pi Ban migrant school, our house is the unofficial bus stop for the surrounding kilometer or so. It’s so fun to have the kids gathered around in the mornings–both kids we know and kids we are only now meeting–and then hear, “The car is here! The car is here!” and watch everyone pile into the back of a pick-up. It’s a magic show, really: I have no idea how they pile some fifty kids into the car. They just keep coming and squeezing.

IMG_3730On one of the first days of school, there was a kid outside of our gate early in the morning, before any of the other kids had arrived. Stephen welcomed him in and told him he could sit down. The poor little boy looked dumb-founded. Stephen could tell he was scared, so just smiled and came back inside, saying, “Well, there is a new kid outside, and I don’t think he expected me to speak Burmese. I’m also not sure how he knew to come here. Do they just tell the new kids to go to the white people’s house? The poor kid is scared to death.”

IMG_3735One last note: we are really excited to say that the two girls who were unable to go to school last year have started back to school this year! (In the photos above, they are the two girls on the far right.) We are so excited for this opportunity for them, and also really thankful we were able to help them in the gap of this last year. We really hope that giving them English and math practice over the last year and through the summer program will help them to adjust back, despite the absence of a year.

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