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sister celebration.

November 8, 2011 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos Leave a Comment

I nearly forgot, really.

Stephen and I had left to go to a meeting at work, on the way realizing it was Jenn’s birthday, and that we pathetically said nothing! My parents on the other side of the world got to her first by Skype, while she sat in my living room.

Lame.

But, it was a good day.

We started with an early morning bike to the market, a personal favorite. We drooled over the fresh fruits and veggies and picked up some delicious Burmese breakfast.

The afternoon? A few firsts for both of us: a pedicure here in Mae Sot and a Thai massage. The pedicure was to be expected, but wonderful; the Thai massage is whole new story. Jenn loved it; Stephen and I felt our bubbles were a little crowded. I definitely would have chosen different underclothes if I’d known the top and bottom they gave me would be a thin white fabric missing an unfortunately located button.

Either way, we then took our time to cook some delicious Greek falafel, hummus, and spice cake!

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in photos.

November 8, 2011 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos 2 Comments

We’ve just returned from a trip with Chris, Jenn, and a few other Partners staff to some villages along the border. Honestly, I can’t be bothered to recount all the stories while they are still here in present, but here’s a few photos in an attempt to capture some of the fun.

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imgp6508.jpg{headed to shower in a waterfall after a long hike.}

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imgp6852.jpg{while Chris was busy treating and training, Jenn & I started au naturale art projects with the kids: make pictures out of leaves, sticks, and flowers}

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img_7162.jpg{waterfall one: perfect for climbing, not as good for showering. three visits in three days.}

img_7163.jpg{it was cold.}

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img_7186.jpg{contemplating the conquer}

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imgp6669.jpg{a medic and avid tree climber. he’s after coconuts for a snack. and if the whole tree was in the photo, you wouldn’t be able to see him.}

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imgp6833.jpg{obligatory singing for the group; more off key than usual this time.}

imgp6877.jpg{the crew: medics, Partners staff, traveling friends}

imgp6882.jpg{one more suture before leaving town. this one made the rest of us a little light-headed, so we went off to town to find some sweeties for the poor kiddo.}

img_7205.jpg{waterfall two: absolutely gorgeous.}

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well, it was funny.

November 2, 2011 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos Leave a Comment

After a long day of hiking into a village, we were all pretty anxious for showers. Unfortunately, the nearby faucet and bucket designed for bathing was being cleaned.

Option two? A nearby waterfall. Sounds beautiful, right? An experience, yes?

As gentleman, Stephen & Chris encouraged Jenn & I to go first. We put on our sarongs and headed to the waterfall with about five locals.

Take note of our get up: our sarongs are a simple tube of Karen material pulled around us and tucked in at the top. We have towels over our shoulders, flip flops on, and shampoo in hand. I also brought my razor, which I realized later was much too ambitious.

This waterfall was relatively nearby–about half a kilometer. A little further than anticipated for a shower. This short distance also included a hike through the jungle, crossing about six smallish waterfalls with a decent current, a steep vertical climb of mossy rock, and crossing a hydropower engine for the village.

It was hilarious in many ways.

Our first challenge was to simply keep our sarongs up. It’s easier said than done while standing, but hiking in a loose robe wouldn’t be my first choice. There is something about stretching out to step over rushing water and sharp rocks without underclothes that feels very vulnerable. It’s also quite challenging to climb up a vertical rock with one hand on your falling sarong and the other grasping the shampoo & razor you’re questioning was worth bringing. Let’s just say there were some close calls, and I definitely was wishing we had decided to just share shampoo for this one!

There was also the challenge of keeping on flipflops in rushing waters. I laughed at Jenn when she lost hers down a waterfall (to be recovered by a competent local), but then lost mine three times following–all to be recovered by someone more competent than I.

By the time we were on our way back, now in very wet, heavy sarongs, we had someone carrying our shoes, another someone carrying our shampoos, and someone else in charge of lending a hand when needed.  They had picked up on our inadequacies.

The actual bath was lovely. Having just finished rainy season, the water was forcefully coming off the mountain, so rather than attempting to hold tree roots in a pool of deep, swirling water, we sat on the rocks. We let this beautiful, fresh water flow over us, while we desperately grasped our sarongs. It was clumsy, and it encouraged stares and laughs.

It was funny enough that we did a re-creation for Chris & Stephen when we went to visit the waterfall the next afternoon.

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And after hiking back from the “shower”, we had dirty hands from bracing on trees and dirty feet from trekking through dirt and mud. I had begun to sweat again.

The bathing faucet had been fixed by this time, and we could quickly rinse off. Again.

And hey, at least it was funny.

societal changes.

November 2, 2011 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli Leave a Comment

One of my favorite books of all time is The Giver by Lois Lowry. I read it for the first time in fourth grade, again in seventh, and nearly every year since.

In the past year I began collecting other books by Lois Lowry, and have only now–as in just this week–discovered that The Giver is actually part of a trilogy.

It’s like reading the The Fellowship of the Ring for years without ever getting to the Return of the King!

On our recent trip down the border with Chris and Jenn, I took along The Messenger, the last part of the trilogy. I loved it, of course. All three create a Utopian-type village, where they have somehow worked to eliminate whatever they felt was wrong in the world. For instance, in The Giver, all good things are eliminated with the bad, so that you cannot feel either–no color or taste or love or sunshine, but also no pain or discomfort in inequality or enduring a sunburn.

In The Messenger, the village accepts everyone, “a place that welcomed newcomers and offered home and homes to people fleeing poverty and cruelty.”  As the story continues, the community members begin to “trade” parts of themselves for possessions, skills, or traits. Things begin to change, and some of the community suggest that they close the village to the outsiders they have always welcomed.

This is the quote that struck me.

“Some of those who had been among the most industrious, the kindest, and the most stalwart citizens of Village now went to the platform and shouted out their wish that the border be closed so that ‘we’ (Matty shuddered at the use of ‘we’) would not have to share the resources anymore.

We need all the fish for ourselves.

Our school is not big enough to teach their children, too; only our own.

They can’t even speak right. We can’t understand them.

They have too many needs. We don’t want to take care of them.

And finally: We’ve done it long enough.

Now and then a lone citizen, untouched by trade, would go the platform and try to speak. They spoke of the history of Village, how each of them there had fled poverty and cruelty and been welcomed at this new place that had taken them in.

…Then he heard the blind man begin to speak on his behalf: ‘My boy came here six years ago as a child. Many of you remember the Matty he was then. He fought and swore and stole…Village has changed him and made him what he is now,’ the blind man said. ‘He will receive his true name soon.’

…’I remember what he was like! If we close the border, we won’t have to do that anymore! We won’t have to deal with thieves and braggarts and people who have lice in their hair, the way Matty did then, when he came!’

Matty turned to look. It was a woman. He was stunned, as if someone had slapped him. It was his own neighbor, the very woman who had made clothes for him when he came. He remembered standing their in rags while she measured him and then on her thimble to stitch the clothing for him. She had a soft voice then, and talked gently to him while she sewed.” (p.85-86)

This reminded me of the US-Mexico border; of the Thai-Burma border; and really of society on the whole. It made me ache for the tendency in each of us to feel as though we’ve done enough or we don’t want to deal with it anymore. It’s too big.

Whatever “it” is. Suffering, I suppose.

I don’t have much in the way of conclusion. Just new challenges, new perspectives, and fresh aims at grace.

 

small.

November 1, 2011 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli Leave a Comment

“On the trip home on Apollo 11, it suddenly struck me that that tiny pea, pretty and blue, was the Earth. I held up my thumb and shut one eye, and my thumb blotted out planet Earth. But it didn’t make me feel like a giant; it made me feel very, very small.”

-Neil Armstrong

I can resonate with this today. Not in the space travel necessarily, but in the smallness.

two years.

November 1, 2011 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos Leave a Comment

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I’m celebrating two years of being married to this boy today.

And I’m still loving it, to say the least.

seasons.

October 31, 2011 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli Leave a Comment

“For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:
a time to be born, and a time to die;
a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
a time to kill, and a time to heal;
a time to break down, and a time to build up;
a time to weep, and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
a time to seek, and a time to lose;
a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
a time to tear, and a time to sew;
a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
a time to love, and a time to hate;
a time for war, and a time for peace.”
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

This verse has become very real to me recently.

The word seasons hits me first, as we are currently missing out on the cool winds, warm colors, bright leaves, and chilly rains of autumn.  It’s all wonderful, from the pumpkins and soups and scarves. And cardis!  And this only followed by the beauty of winter, when everything turns so gray and cozy. The knitting, jackets, warm fires.

We need none of that here.

I keep hearing good reports of the cool season coming our way, but needing a sweater at night just isn’t the same as needing two shirts, a cardigan, a coat, and scarf to walk out the door. It also isn’t the same when I’m still wearing a tank top while I cook dinner in the most humid kitchen you could fathom in your head.

But I guess seasons go far beyond that. We are also in a season of rest.

With Chris & Jenn here, we’ve been enjoying some time off. It’s been a wonderful blessing to pull back from it all and reconsider. Stephen and I have been slowly working our way through The Rest of God by Mark Buchanan for the past few months, where he discusses Sabbath rest. It has really challenged me to actually rest and find pleasure in new ways. I’ve found myself seeking out rest–and ultimately beauty and thankfulness–in unexpected places.

In this, I began to see this next phase of our lives as a little bit of a Sabbatical. This might be a little generous, as we’re going to be working once Chris & Jenn leave, and we’ll be traveling to about six locations along the border before journeying to the other side of the globe for the holidays. Maybe not obviously restful. But all the same, we have a chance to re-experience Thailand with family; to take a break from teams and see Partners from a new perspective; to reunite with family.

Its a new perspective, pushing us to look toward thankfulness.

We’re also learning that seasons change, and we’re having to just roll with the punches. This has been true in every way. We never thought we’d be going home at Christmas after just eleven months here. We never thought we’d be mourning with family, as we deal with health problems around the world.

At risk of adding to Scripture, it’s beginning to mean to me that there is a time to save and a time to spend; there is a time to work hard and a time to contemplate rest; there is a time to Skype and a time to fly home; there is a time to eat rice and a time to savor a sandwich.

(And yes, I did just choose sandwich there. I miss good sandwiches.)

“A time to mourn, and a time to dance” has become more real to me with each day. The mourning has sunk deeper, and the dancing has risen up with an appreciated grace.

But I suppose, as I read over these, many are striking me closer than they ever have before. And I suppose it’s the season I’m in.

cheese one.

October 31, 2011 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos Leave a Comment

Our first [successful] cheese-making endeavor!

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cheese making.

October 29, 2011 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos Leave a Comment

This is our latest endeavor: making cheese.

Jenn and I gave it a go today. I can’t say it went splendidly, and Chris would say it was much more ear wax-like than he would have liked. But we laughed, and we bought more milk this afternoon, so we obviously aren’t too discouraged.

img_7072.jpgWith help from our Karen teacher, we now know where to find fresh milk in the market. She showed us the good shop where they don’t add water to stretch it further. Despite the unattractive presentation in the bags, it tastes really wonderful. And in the end, its actually cheaper than purchasing milk at the local Tescos.

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christmas in october.

October 29, 2011 by Stephen & Kelli Spurlock Filed Under: kelli, photos Leave a Comment

After sorting out a new, freshly scented fridge, our second project since Chris & Jenn arrived has been at hand: provide Christmas in October to a whole lot of kiddos.

It’s been fun.

Chris’ mom has been hard at work at her school, helping the students there to raise money to purchase toys for the children here. While sharing our blog and about the neighbor children, she raised a whole lot of funds and sent over a lovely stash of toys.

IMG_6839They were in such abundance, we delivered to two locations. Our first stop was Heavenly Home, this incredible orphanage in town. It’s run by one the loveliest, most generous people I know.

Thant Zin & Lilly started the orphanage about seven years ago, simply because his spiritual leader encouraged him too. Thant Zin told us yesterday that his mentor loved children and wanted him to open the home, but he himself didn’t have a heart for children. He said he first the children were too loud, he didn’t have enough patience, and he “could not learn wisdom from them”; but now, they have clearly won his heart. They love a home of forty three kids with all they have.

I’m amazed how much I learn each time we go. And how much I’m refreshed and restored in being there. I never thought a room full of orphaned children could bring such deep rest and encouragement for my soul.

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img_6937.jpgAnd today, we spent some time outside with our neighborhood kids. We’ll be keeping these toys with us in the house rather than giving them away, with hopes that time will enable us to communicate how to return things and treat them well.

They absolutely loved them!

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